I base this opinion of the age of 13 being the average age for puburty in women and in men, a 13 year old can technically get pregnant or get someone pregnant, therefore i feel 12 years older or younger is the cap on an age difference for me. That means hes more mature but not old enough to have fathered a child at the same time i was born. I know two couples with age differences of 17 and 20 years. If they are that age or older, possibilities exist.Even still, his oldest child is 18 and even she doesnt think it appropriate her father date me. So, if I'm...60, and ...he's 38, things might work. If two people are committed to each other that is the most crucial thing.So, for example, anecdotally I've observed that more women than men ages 35 to 40 want to do do extreme sports such as rock climbing, run marathons, or do triathlons.Objections Today, thanks to prenatal screening, most women have a high probability of having a healthy baby through their 30s and even early 40s.Marrying an older woman may even yield benefits fairly early in a marriage.For example, compatible energy levels makes it more likely that a couple will want to recreate together.
The problem is the older they are, the quicker they hit their sexual peak and the quicker they start declining.I will admit I'm biased: My wife is five years older than I am and we've been contentedly married for almost 40 years now. Alfred Kinsey's classic work on sexuality concluded that men's sexual hormones peak at 18, women's in their early 30s.Of course, factors other than hormones affect sexuality, for example, being experienced at sex, but a man increases his chances of sexual compatibility by marrying an older woman. Having lived longer, a person is more likely to have maturity that comes with age: not to fight so much about trivia, not as likely to have an affair having gotten that out of her system.In fact, as argued above, there's reason to believe you'll be happier with an older woman.Women just keep getting better at head games the older they get, their maturity peaks before pubity, then degrades til 14, then stays there until 65, then they get smart again. But that doesn't make the assertion "nonsense." As I wrote, factors other than hormones determine a good sex life, for example, having had experience.