taoheedoriloye: So you mean your mom shouldn't enjoy herself because she married? your dad is outdated and is good for her to have a taste on young guys so that she will not age mom is smart audacious and quality woman , tell her to put in more effort! If she wants sexual satisfaction, then file for a divorce!
So cos the man does it, then she should engage in it too. Yelabechi, their marriage seem to have hit rock bottom, so to avoid shame through illicit affairs, let her kukuma file for a divorce and biko don't stop her again cos you sef don see sey konji don hold the woman.
Well, I understand if you dont want your mom to leave,that may give room for open affair since she would be living alone and since we are in Africa,she will turn to outcast by mere doing that and you lot would call her all sort of names.
She has found that outside via multiple men and how she satisfies herself shouldn't concern u......i repeat stay away from her phone Yelabechi: I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids.
You better allow event to take care of itself, confronting you mother is exposing yourself to fury of a woman who has been in dejection.
But guy, you no also try o, evading your mother's privacy.
I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. Did it ever occur to you, that just like so many married women, with community horsebands, your mum was waiting for her kids to grow within a complete family system(as society demands) before divorcing? This is why it's good for women to be independent and remain physically appealing. Your Mum and Dad are in what is called Polyamorous marriage!
She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again. All that "who will want you after 3kids" threat, na for women wey no know wassup. You better allow event to take care of itself, confronting you mother is exposing yourself to fury of a woman who has been in dejection.